By Beth Braverman, Money Magazine
The vast majority of Americans want to live at home for as long as possible: Nearly 90% of people over the age of 65 said so in a 2010 AARP survey.
And with assisted living costing more than $40,000 a year on average, staying put can also save money. But the physical and medical problems that go hand in hand with aging can make home life difficult.
That’s why seniors – and their adult children – are increasingly hiring help to extend their time at home. Demand for these services is so strong that the Labor Department expects the number of aides to rise by 70% through 2020, making it the fastest-growing job in America.
The cost of help, though, can add up fast, averaging $21,000 a year for a typical part-time schedule, says MetLife. And more often than not, the government or insurance won’t foot the bill. Take these steps to find the right care:
Identify the need
After a hospital stay or health crisis, it’s often obvious that a parent should have help. In those cases a doctor may prescribe short-term skilled nursing care or physical therapy visits, which should be covered by Medicare.
Other times, the need is tougher to spot: dirty dishes in the usually tidy kitchen, stubble on Dad’s typically clean-shaven face.
“When you see longtime habits changing, that could be a sign,” says Kathleen Gilmartin, chief executive officer of home health franchiser Interim Healthcare.
Your own heavy caregiving load could also be the trigger: “Home health aides give family caregivers a break from the stress and let them manage their own life,” says Denise Brown, founder of online support site Caregiving.com.
The type of care varies, from health aides and nursing assistants who can help with bathing, dressing, and medication reminders to workers who’ll do light housework and fix meals. In both cases you’ll pay about $20 an hour through a home health agency, says MetLife (for live-in care, the average tab is $250 a day). By hiring directly you can pay about a third less, says Steve Horen, CEO of the home agency Koved Care.
A geriatric-care manager ($150 to $200 an hour) can do an assessment of your parents’ needs. Locate one at caremanager.org.
A geriatric-care manager or home health agency will screen candidates and conduct background checks. You can find an agency at homecareaoa.org. Advertise directly, and you’ll need to do the due diligence, including checking references and credentials. Health aides and nursing assistants are generally certified by the state.